Just a few days ago, as my favorite television programme went into a commercial break, I was so tempted to switch to another channel when an advertisement caught my attention and stopped me from channel surfing. After watching the commercial, it left me pondering about the way we use cognitive schemata to form impressions of other people, interpret their messages, and develop a certain perception about them. Personal prototypes are idealized representations of a certain kind of person. The information contained in prototypes consists of traits, patterns of behavior, and role relations that fit our idea of a certain type of people. Many times, we often subconsciously develop a certain perception or opinion about a particular person without any particular basis, just purely by looking at the appearance of the person. How then, did we manage to come to a conclusion on how we feel about this person without even getting to know him or her? Our own real life experiences, stories that our friends shared with us, and sometimes even the way the media portrays a certain types of people plays a role in helping us to form perceptions and impressions of a particular individual. Although this may be useful in helping us to identify and categorize people, negatively, it actually colours the way we view people and it often leads to stereotyping.
Here is a picture that is from the television commercial that I mentioned earlier. (I tried to attain permission from the producer of the commercial to include the video in this post, but my request was not acceeded. ): )
Be truthful, and think carefully about what comes straight into your mind the moment you see this person with a back that is so heavily tattooed? What is the first thing that you will associate this person with? Is he just an ordinary caring father of two, or could he be someone from the underground society? Some of us may associate tattoos with gangsters and rebels, some may think that having tattoos are cool and trendy, and yet others may find that tattoo is actually a form of body art. All these different responses are largely attributable to the different perceptions that we have already formed in our minds. Because these perceptions are already instilled in us, it is very difficult for us to change them. For example, assume that I associate tattoos with someone being very cool. Once I see a person with tattoos, I will automatically have the thinking, "Wow, this person is so cool." Such perceptions often result in stereotypes and in more serious causes, misinterpretations. Think about it, how often have we let our own perceptions guide our way of thinking?
Have you ever avoided taking a seat on the public bus next to someone with tattoos all over his body despite feeling very tired? What if that person was someone dressed smartly in a longsleeved shirt and tie? Would you have taken that seat otherwise? When asking people to donate to charity, did you only approach people who looked "friendlier" and not those who have body piercings and tattoos everywhere? Don't judge. You can never know what a person is like just by looking at appearances.
In this commercial, a heavily tattooed man is trying his best to remove a Post-it note that is stuck on his back. No matter how hard he tries, there is no way he can reach it. The note saying, "Ex-Offender" is out of his reach. The only way to remove that "label" is for another person to remove it from his back. This commercial made use of a simple props, an ex-convict with lots of tattoos on his back, a Post-it note reading "Ex-Offender", and a simple background music to cleverly convey its message clearly to everyone of us. Why did the director of the commercial decided to use a heavily tattooed man as the leading "actor" of the commercial? The answer is very simple. Due to our perceptions of people with certain traits or characteristics (in this case, tattoos), our society has come to a point where we are all guilty of categorizing people and putting labels on them. So much so that in order to clearly convey this message of prejudice across, the director deliberately chose to use a heavily tattooed man to portray himself as an ex-convict. This is largely due to the fact that many of us often have this misperception that people with tattoos are likely to be offenders, or rebels of any sort. All of us - you and me, should put aside all our prejudices and negative stereotypes before coming to a conclusion about the character or personality of a person. Just by looking at a person's appearance is inadequate and unfair for us to make an accurate judgment about a particular person. Once again, this commercial clearly demonstrates the effective use of non-verbal communication to convey a certain message. There was no need for fancy props, catchy music or digital imaging effects. Encoders of the message (you and me) could clearly comprehend the meaning of this commercial.
Touching a little bit more on this commercial, this commercial is actually launched in conjunction with the Yellow Ribbon Project (
http://www.yellowribbon.org.sg/) . The Yellow Ribbon Project is a network that helps ex-offenders and their families integrate back into the society by encouraging companies to hire them and organizing campaigns to help remove the label of prejudice. I feel that it is of utmost importance that we actually give these people another chance in society. Before we condemn them and straightaway jump into the our biased perception of ex-convicts, I think we should take into considerations about the feelings of these people who are perpetually being rejected or looked down upon in our society. Some of them may have already changed for the better, some may just want to lead an ordinary life after they have served their time, and some, may just be trying to earn a living to provide for their families. No matter what, I feel that we should all be responsible to help these ex-convicts and give them another chance. Because, if we don't, who will? Don't let our personal prototypes affect our decisions, and more importantly, never judge a person just by looking at his or her appearance. Of course, all these also largely depend on whether the ex-convicts are willing to start afresh, turn over a new leaf and embrace the opportunities that are given to them. If they are willing to do so, I would definitely be willing to help them unlock their second prison too. What about you?